Dress Modesty and Rape Rates, Just For FuN and to Think about if You Wish to.

I had a conversation with a friend and guide of mine who is apparently a psychologist. We happened to note that the dress modesty of women and the rape rates of a place has some connection. They go hand in hand.

About the women modesty and rape, I thought I would take the trouble to prove what had been my assumption, which apparently is listed below. Here's what I did. 


First, I visited 'Rape Statistics' page of wikipedia. Then searched for India; which is not on the list. I collected the rape statistics of India from another source, of which the link is here. 
Then I remembered my old geography classes that Syria is in the Middle-East, where most women wear clothing that covers everywhere except face and hands. 
Then I went for France, for I heard that France has the most trendy dress. 
So just as a Sampling, I took US, India, Syria & France. See below the extracts, source links, observations and conclusions:

Rape Statistics:

In US, 90,427 rapes; i.e. 29.3 rapes per 100,000 population (From Wikipedia, in 2008)
In India, 20,737 rapes; i.e. 1.8 rape per 100,000 population (in 2007) [From here, not Wikipedia]
In Syria, 125 rapes; i.e. 0.6 rape per 100,000 population (From Wikipedia, in 2008)
In France, 10,132 rapes; i.e. 16.4 rape per 100,000 population (From Wikipedia, in 2008)

About the rates in India, please note that 1000s of cases are not reported, but still rate is far lesser than US. And the Indian Statistics is of 2007, which is what I could get. Of course, you can add even a 10,000 more. Then it becomes: 30,737 rapes; i.e. 2.6 rape per 100,000 population.

Dress details:IND:http://www.newworldencyclopedia.org/entry/india#Clothing
FR:http://www.virtualtourist.com/travel/Europe/France/Ile_de_France/Paris-99080/Local_Customs-Paris-Fashion-BR-1.html
SY:http://www.newworldencyclopedia.org/entry/syria#Clothing
US: 

Observations
--The women in the US expose more. The more modest among the typical US women dress cover almost many areas, but as far as I know, reveals the curves and shape of the body.

--The Indian dress is more modest, and shows lesser curves. 

--The Syrian dress, as you have seen from the link, cover everything except hands and face.

--The French dress, is classy, but it either reveals the curves, or covers less parts, or both.

Conclusion*For a layman: [QUOTE]The more modest the dress of women in an area, the less the number of rapes in the area.[/QUOTE]

*For scientists: [QUOTE]There is an inverse relationship between the modesty of the women's dress and the number of rapes of a country[/QUOTE]

*For Newton: [QUOTE]There is a positive and direct relationship between the exposure of women's body and the number of rapes, when the place of the women and the place where the rape rate is calculated is held constant.[/QUOTE] 

*For Psychologist: [QUOTE]The 'rape' part in the mind of man gets activated and blood rushes to that part of the brain and to that 'equipment' to be attended to, when more and more women expose their parts or wear less modest cloths, thereon[/QUOTE] 

This is just an idea of publishing what we found. This is not to make fun of any country. Anyone can wear what they want. This must be only a coincidence and might not have any reality in it. The observations and conclusions are of course subject to errors and variations. The conclusions are especially for a fun to the writer, my friend and the readers.

Last Longer in Bed - 9 Try It Tonight Techniques

We'll discuss some techniques which you can use instantly to last longer. Don't see them as a PE cure, though in the long run these techniques can kinda cure PE by retraining your body and also lowering anxiety because you did not cum too soon in the previous sessions.

Before writing long articles and instructions to cure PE (which I'll do soon), you can use these techniques tonight to last a little more. These are 'try it tonight techniques'. The better you do this, the more you'll last longer in bed.

You might not feel great pleasure in the initial times, but soon you'll learn to do the techniques without compromising pleasure once you master them (of course, it will happen in a month).

TRY IT TONIGHT TECHNIQUES

1. Slow Down, Partner

Try It Tonight Technique No. 1: Slow Down, Partner

Take things slowly. Longer foreplay - this can be very beneficial; you'll loose the high-spirit and temptation to cum after a long foreplay. You'll become less sensitive to touch after a long foreplay. For her, it is not just penetration, it is something deeper. You have to caress every lock of her hair, every inch of her body.

Thrust slowly. Any girl would love slow, sensual stuff than a hard, fast and rough one especially when you cum too soon in the latter. Once she experiences a sensual lovemaking, she is likely to prefer sensual one to faster ones.

Further, slow performance can help you observe your sensations rather than increasing till climax and put a sudden brake to the session. Knowing you body's sensations can help you in the long-run to become Multi-Orgasmic.

Notes:

1. If you go slow, you'll have a stronger, mind-blowing orgasm and may be a powerful ejaculation too.

2. Going slow can help you do all other techniques better.

Reference:

PEGym  

2. Relax All The Way

Try It Tonight Technique No. 2: Relax All The Way

Have you noticed during masturbation or when on bed that you actually contract the muscles in the pelvic region? Most PE men do this, especially if the cause of their problem is not medical. When you are very close to ejaculating you are likely to have many contractions in the pelvic region. It is one aspect of nearing to ejaculation.

Try relaxing those pelvic muscles, also called PC Muscle.

There is a type of 'forced relaxing' of those muscles called 'Reverse Kegelling', which for many people, might need practice. It is actually forcing you not to contract. Read about Reverse Kegel Exercises.

And why don't you try relax your full body and enjoy the sensations? It would be better to have a relaxed body and a super-cool mind.

Notes:

1. Do Nirmal Stiti Meditation or Triangular Breathing Meditation before the 'act' to relax you off.

2. This can also help you to observe your body and get to know what happens to your body while the act so as to help you with Easy Practice Techniques to last longer in bed.

3. Deep Breathing or Triangle Breathing

Try It Tonight Technique No. 3: Deep Breathing or Triangle Breathing

Breathe deeply during the act. Don't forget to 'Breathe the Correct Way' (Ctrl + Click on it to open). Breathe from the belly.  Yes, do it now. Feel the air fill your lungs as your belly enlarges (not your chest).

This can provide more oxygen which directly lowers your heartbeat rate, tension and anxiety.

Why don't you try the Triangle Breathing? 5 second inhale, hold for 5 seconds, 5 second exhale. If you have the capacity, you can use 7 or 12 or more instead of 5 seconds.

Triangle Breathing can help you keep track of the breathing. Once you get better, you can let deep, belly breathing happen on its own. You can move on and concentrate on your sensations to know 'em better and be a good lover.

Notes:

1. If you relax as in the previous tip, you'll be able to do this better.

2. Don't get exhausted from too deep a breath. This will take all your excitement, though getting exhausted can help last longer.

4. Tongue Technique

Try It Tonight Technique No. 4: Tongue Technique

Run the tip of the tongue against the roof of the mouth in a circular motion. An easy way to last. You don't believe me, do you? This technique actually works not by distracting you from the event, but by tuning the bodily sensation apart from that 'down there'. Instant and easy technique.

I had better use of this when I suck in and create a suction with the tongue. This makes an energy pathway to move the 'Yang Ching Chi' (or just 'ching') up the spinal cord. (This is a Chinese explanation)

So the next time you do, don't forget to use the tongue before it's too late.

Notes:

1. Don't consider it a myth.

5. Her On Top

Try It Tonight Technique No. 5: Her on Top

This one is actually a well known technique, yet not much in use. Try some positions in which she is on top and in control. She'll try positions that will make her day, than yours. You'll be less sensitive to her positions. Well of course, if she is a type who wants it 'harder baby, faster' then it might not help you focus. But you bet, any girl would want it slow. You can initiate things slowly, and so she is likely to do things slowly. You can always suggest her to go slow.

Notes:

1. This can also help you to do many other techniques better, especially Try It Tonight Technique 7.

2. One reason is because you're relieved of some 'work'.

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Eyes wide, focused on top

6. Eyes Wide Technique

Try It Tonight Technique No. 6: Eyes Wide Technique

Ever tried opening your eyes wide during the full performance? Do it, man. Better focus the eyes on the top. A little known technique indeed.

Notes:
1. You might not get it very easy in the beginning though. Get used to it.
2. It is an excellent combination with Try It Tonight Technique No. 6: Tongue Technique.

7. Legs Wide Position

Try It Tonight Technique No. 7: Legs Wide Position

You usually say 'spread her legs and do it'. Why don't 'you' try it? Why don't you spread 'your' legs and do it? Keep in mind to open your anus, for that's the point here. This ensures more blood flow down there, and to do 'forced relaxing' mentioned in Try It Tonight Technique No. 2: Relax All The Way. In Taoist perspective, this position allows 'ching' another pathway (anus) to escape from the body.

Notes:
1. This is a surefire way when you combine it with Try It Tonight Technique No. 2: Relax All The Way. 

8. Math Technique

Try It Tonight Technique No. 8: Math Technique (not recommended)

Well, you do some mental math. Count back from 200 skipping 3 numbers like 200...197...194... or do multiplication tables of tougher numbers like 12, 13, 17, 19, etc. I don't recommend this because you won't learn about your body when you are preoccupied with Mathematics. You've to actually observe your body to cure PE with yoga and exercises. You won't enjoy the physical relation, but its better than being awful in bed. But remember, you have to be 'in the moment'. Would you like if your partner is doing this during the act? Same for her.

Notes:
1. Don't use the same table or pattern always. You know why.
2. You might even cure PE if you do this in the long run to last longer, because you might have retrained your body to cum later.

9. Food Technique

Try It Tonight Technique No. 9: Food Technique (not recommended)

Eat tons of 'fatty' foods and become fat. Fat men last roughly about 7 minutes longer. The reason is that they have more oestrogen (female hormone) in them that slows their way to orgasm. I don't know, but I think if you inject oestrogen, may be you'll last instantly. This is tricky but I recommend it the least. I don't even like to write it here because I hate this technique and of course it is not much of a 'Try It Now' but quite easy. Consider this just for your knowledge.

Notes:
1. If you're thin, keep a well balanced diet and become moderate in size. Needn't go too fat to last a little longer.

Food For Thought:
1. Are most PE men thin? I think so.